It’s The Most Nostalgic Time Of The Year

As the holiday season approaches, one of the quiet gifts of growing older is the treasure trove of memories we carry with us—moments filled with laughter, love, and the warmth of family traditions. Of course, with that gift comes the challenge of sorting through those memories, especially when nostalgia tugs at the heart. 

I often think back to the way our holidays began: a visit to my maternal grandma’s house, where joy came in the form of a new litter of puppies and a punch recipe that could outshine any Kool-Aid. I was one of the lucky ones—both of my grandmas lived in the same town, which meant double the hugs, double the food, and double the memories. 

Late in the afternoon, we headed over to Grandma W’s house, where we would inevitably find at least 25 people still hanging around, nibbling on leftovers. Games would come out and we would play into the night. 

It’s funny what you can remember...the voices of both of my grandmas, the smell of smoke as we played games, the frightening amount of tinsel Grandma hung on the tree next to the fireplace, good-natured teasing among family, good food, and the happiness that comes from a slight break in the routine and being with loved ones. 

This time of year, it’s not uncommon to see someone with a tear in their eye. They might be quietly replaying cherished memories, feeling the tug of nostalgia, or missing someone who once made the holidays brighter. These moments of reflection are tender reminders of the love we've known and the traditions that shaped us. 

So if you notice someone lost in thought, don’t hesitate to offer a warm smile, a gentle hug, or a silent prayer. A small act of kindness can be a powerful gift—especially during this season of joy, remembrance, and connection. After all, the most meaningful traditions aren’t found under the tree—they’re found in the way we care for one another.